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Descent into Dadness

Fumbling through fatherhood since 2014.

I'm David: DIY junkie, unapologetic nerd, Appalachian native, dad of three, and author of this here blog.

Parenting, much like following Jesus, is a pursuit of purpose greater than ourselves.


Every day is an adventure.

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Just him

The boys and I have an unspoken agreement that we’ve adopted over the years. When the days run long or their hearts are heavy, they can...

The Walk

One. Two. Three. The path is obscured by a swirl of fictile mist. Your light refracts in the density, pooling dimly on the earth. Flowers...

Disrepair

I painted the room where you ended your life this weekend. It felt like a protest against those walls, the gypsum and woodwork that...

Exposed

Oh, you? I know you. You were the independent one, the one they didn’t worry about. You were shaped by the world to comfort others in...

A Man of Sorrows

“He was despised and rejected - a man of sorrows…Yet it was our weakness he carried; it was our sorrows that weighed him down.” Isaiah...

Gridlocked

My mind is gridlocked. If you’ve ever wondered what ADHD looks like, here’s a peek at my desk this morning. Sheet music with notes in the...

If He Dresses the Lilies

“The Lord God made garments of animal skin for Adam and his wife and clothed them.” - Genesis 3:21 This verse has weighed on me today. It...

Joyful Noise

Spoiler alert: There's a very good reason I chose writing as a hobby over singing.

I'd Still Choose Them

To the checkout clerk side-eyeing an ADHD 5-year-old who's asked his dad for a candy bar half a dozen times - we see you. To the couple...

30 Things I've Learned in 30 Years

Last week on the sandy shores of Perdido Key, I had an existential crisis crossing the threshold into my 30s. Jokes aside, I did take...

All the Things We Couldn't Say

Stuffed animals sit motionless, the vibrancy of their stitching lost with the imagination that once animated them. His warmth has...

Disconnected

Lately, Molly and I have felt convicted over that ominous, backlit monster every 21st century parent fears most: screen time. We've made...

Sunrise

I decided to clean out the boys’ room today and came across this daily scripture card smuggled into Mason’s drawer: “May you be filled...

Man of Steel

Uncle Chris, It's impossible to truly capture everything I wish I could tell you, but A.A. Milne came close when he wrote, "We didn't...

How to Build a Sofa Table

While blogging about my children is a blast, I can't create a space that captures the essence fatherhood without sharing other content...

Dear Daughter

You won't remember this - your chest slowly rising, cresting, falling. As some of your first heartbeats tap gently on my forearm, I...

What to Expect When Ya'll are Expecting

Growing up in the hills of East Tennessee, it was understood (at least in my family) that all new parents undergo a cultural rite of...

Messiness

This morning, I stepped on not one, not two, but three different LEGO blocks scattered across the living room. "Death by a thousand cuts"...

Shake the Jar

If you'd told 16-year-old me, in the midst of an uphill battle with hormones and teen-angst, that I would eventually become my father, I...

Sacred

"We need to talk." Molly has delivered this line many times, each instance dripping with that trademark tension and ambiguity women have...

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